Hot Sex Tip of the Day – Peak and Plateau

The Peak and Plateau Technique helps you to become more aware of your arousal process and potential, and is a beneficial practice for erection and early ejaculation issues. On a scale of 1–10, if 8 is just before the “oh my God, I’m going to come” stage (the point of ejaculatory inevitability), practice reaching a level of 8 and then backing off. Repeat the process several times as you maintain that peak for longer periods. When you are ready, enjoy release using ejaculatory choice. Enjoy this erotic fun when you self-pleasure, or invite your lover to join you.

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Sex – Men and Women and Gender Differences

When it comes to sex women need a reason; men just need a place.

Adam came first – but men usually do.

Women fake orgasm because men fake foreplay.

He’ll fall asleep and she’ll fall in love.
While sexual humor may bring a chuckle and provide ammunition for late night talk show hosts, it also carries seeds of truth. Clearly men and women are different when it comes to sex. There are no wrongs, no rights, and no one inhabits another planet. (more)

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A penis by any other name – Sanskrit 101

Recently, I (boldly) shared my Lingam Honoring and Naming Ceremony.
Your Penis and You – Part I
Your Penis and You – Part II

Why do we name things? We give objects and people names because they are significant to us. Because we want them to have a unique identification. Because we care for them and be­cause we are proud of them. As anchors, names help to strengthen a connection. In naming your penis, you are claiming it and honoring it.

Sanskrit, the ancient language of the Hindus, offers us some options:

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Dr. Patti Britton -The “Original Sex Coach” – on The Sex and Intimacy Show

Dr. Patti is spreading the word, and since she is a favorite of Penthouse, Men’s Health, MSNBC, etc., my guess is…it will be a great show.

You can view Dr. Patti here.

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Life Cycle of a Penis

This is a great article – Life Cycle of a Penis
Experts explain how a penis changes in size, appearance, and sexual function as a man ages.
By David Freeman
WebMD

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Sex and Vibrators

So you like vibrators, and your partner has not yet shared that common experience. How can you open the conversation? How can you create comfort and maybe even eager anticipation? What type of vibrator is good to start with?

Jimmyjane, that super sex toy store, has answers to all your questions.
Introducing a Vibrator Into a Relationship

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Masturbation – Are you self-polluting?

I probably don’t need to tell you – you know what that barbaric, spike-lined ring is for. During the 1800’s and early 1900’s, masturbation was frowned upon, and something had to be done about those young men and their sexual libidos. This anti-self-pollution device is one of several invented to prevent young men from masturbating.

Let’s call this one the ‘anti-self-pollution-penis-mutilation-device.’

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Your Penis and You – Part II

(Click here to read Your Penis and You – Part I.)

A brief review – I’ve asked you to look at your genitals with loving eyes, noticing all the beautiful and unique markings, colors, textures and shapes.

Did a name come to you that feels right? If not take your time, and spend more time noticing, stroking, loving, and celebrating. Your name will come.

Why do we name things?

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Sex Toy of the Month

I’m very fond of the Hitachi Magic Wand and often recommend it to my clients. It is definitely an all-purpose vibrator – for the entire body of anybody.

I’ll share other’s reviews –
“Toe-curling fun”
“This ‘Massager’ vibrator is Amazing. It is the difference between a powerful Harley Davidson motorcycle between your thighs or riding a Mo-ped. This Hitachi is the Harley. There are two variable speeds, though you’ll probably never need the high speed one. Well, maybe some of you wild ones might.”

The Magic Wand is not anatomically shaped, so it does not intimidate or shout out your intentions.

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Sex Positions – Getting Creative With Sex Positions

Cory Silverberg is one of my favorite sex writers, and here he takes the popular issue of sex positions to new heights. Like Cory, I have responded with “that depends” many times when asked about “the best” sex positions.

The following articles from SexCoaching.com offer additional insights:
The Best Sex Positions and the Top 10 Mistakes Men Make During Sex
How To Spice up Your Sex Life
Tantric Sex Position

From Cory –
“Questions about sex positions are among the most common and popular questions posed to sex educators, search engines, and call-in sex advice programs. What are the newest sex positions, the most common sex positions, the best sex position? Are there recommended oral sex positions, anal sex positions, sex positions for when you’re pregnant, living with chronic pain, or prone to dizziness?” The rest of the story…

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