Lokita Carter, of EcstaticLiving.com and Tantra Coach for SexCoaching.com shares her knowledge and experience with this popular question:
Q: In one Chinese tantra book, I read that the male could transfer his orgasm to others parts of the body so it did not lead to ejaculation which also allowed him to continue to have sex. Is there any truth to this? James
A: Dear James,
Yes, it is true. You don’t need ejaculation in order to experience orgasm.
In ordinary lovemaking, the feelings, attention, and energy are focused mainly in one area: the genitals. The sensations in our genitals are delightful, however, by being focused on “down there” there is a goal and when that goal is realized, this particular sexual episode is over.
In tantric lovemaking, we use what we call (more)
Tit for tat. Quid pro quo. You scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours.
Lokita Carter, world-renowned tantra teacher, has shared a fantastic article on the basics of tantra and tantric sex positions. She also shares user-friendly instructions for 3 tantric positions. This article is quickly becoming the most viewed on SexCoaching.com. I hope you’ll take a look, too!
“So when we bless, purify, or honor the body as part of a sexual encounter, when we bond more deeply as a result of lovemaking, or when sexual union catapults us into higher consciousness, we make sex sacred.” Deborah Taj Anapol. 
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