The Penis and Tantra – what’s size got to do with it?

Here’s a sexy and playful article on one of our favorite subjects: the penis.

‘…Modern Love suggests that we hold these truths to be self evident, that all penises are created equal. Objectification of the body is COCKamamie (emphasis deliberate) and incompatible with sacred sexuality. It limits pleasure, joy and – since it bears repeating – your average 5.06-inch erect penis is superior to giving a woman a G-spot orgasm. Besides, who wants to make love like a porn star, if you can do it like Tantra gods and goddess’ instead?’

Tinamarie, Modern Love Examiner, includes this Bliss Advocates’s thoughts in her sensational article. Thanks Tinamarie – you rock! You will want to read the entire article – Smaller is better when it comes to G-spot orgasms

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Sexual Savvy – When She Has It and He Doesn’t

“A REAL MAN is ready, willing and able to have sex anytime and anywhere.”
Clearly, his role includes being the Seducer, the Mind Reader, the Touch Maven, and the Giver of Multiple and Mind-Blowing Orgasms – all with infinite stamina – indisput­ably proving that he is the best lover his partner has ever had.

These MYTHS hold men to unrealistic standards and can have a negative impact on their sex-confidence. How does a man gain sexual experience without sexual experiences?

And what happens when his partner has more sexual savvy than he does? (more)

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Tantric Sex Tips – 7 Ways to Please Your Lover

Crystal Dawn Morris, Tantra Teacher, shares Tantric Sex Tips – 7 Ways to Please Your Lover

Tantra is a spiritual path that embraces sexuality as a doorway to the Divine. If you experience love making as a living prayer and see our beloved as a God or Goddess, then sex can take you beyond the world of form, into the formless mystical realms. Here are 7 Tantric tips to help you turn sex into a spiritual practice.

Connected Breathing
Before making love, take time to breathe together and connect your energy. Practice slow belly breathing while gazing into each others’ eyes. Do this practice until you feel the energy flowing between you. Connect your energy to your lover’s energy beginning at the base of the spine and moving up to the heart.

Share How You Like to Be Loved Take turns telling your lover exactly how you like to be loved. Be specific. Show them where and how to touch you. You may even want to demonstrate by touching yourself as they watch. Describe how you like to be kissed, if you like your hair pulled, describe a favorite fantasy, etc. (more)

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Penis Reconstruction

Bless those bunnies! – They’re being guinea pigs for penis reconstruction. Here’s the full scoop from Charles Q. Choi, Special to LiveScience.

“One day artificial penis tissue could be grown to help men, new findings in rabbits now suggest.

After implantation with replacement tissue, lab rabbits that once had damaged penises had working organs and could produce offspring.

“Further studies are required, of course, but our results are encouraging and suggest that the technology has considerable potential for patients who need penile reconstruction,” said researcher Anthony Atala, director of Wake Forest University Baptist Medical Center’s Institute for Regenerative Medicine in Winston-Salem, N.C.

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Stressed about money? Go f*#k yourself

I love this article by Laurie Essig. We’re getting back to basics.

‘You gotta love the American do it yourself spirit. As the Great Recession drags on and on and on, we spend our weekends at big home stores figuring out how to rewire the lights or fix the toilet ourselves. We forgo family vacations elsewhere and have staycations in our own home. And now we’ve decided to invest in sex toys and f*#king ourselves since a hundred dollars invested in a good vibrator or dildo will be a lot more entertaining and long lasting than $100 spent on a single evening of dinner and drinks (which may or may not result in fun in bed).’ more

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The Best Sex Positions for Female Orgasm

Suzie Heumann, Founder of that fantastic resource, Tantra.com, shares about the best sex positions for female orgasm:

“… Most women’s clitorises don’t come near to getting the attention that is needed to stimulate that part of the anatomy during intercourse. If any position is going to do this then it is the C.A.T. (Coital Alignment Technique) position (this is a modified Missionary position where the man is on top and he has shifted his body up a bit towards his partner’s head so that his pubic bone rubs on her clitoris in an up and down (head to toe) motion. The other is the Woman on Top where the woman is leaning down, not sitting up, and she is doing the same motions as the man does in the C.A.T. position. That is, she is moving in a head to toe, up and down rubbing motion so that her clitoris is getting stimulated. Both of these positions do not, however, involve much G-spot or deeper A-spot (a spot above the cervix, deeper in the vagina, A is for Anterior Fornex) stimulation.

The first step, in discovering your vaginal, or yoni, hot spots, is to find your G-spot and begin to arouse, investigate and find orgasms through manual or digital (finger, G-spot wand or vibrator) stimulation…” (more)

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Prostate Massage

I’m going to share about one of those taboo subjects, at least for many – prostate massage.

Recently I caught a glimpse of a TV show at a friend’s house. Her teenage children were watching Two and a Half Men – a prime time sitcom. My glimpse was timely as I witnessed Charlie Sheen twirling around his index finger suggestively alluding to a pleasuring technique that his girlfriend had performed on him. I couldn’t believe that prostate massage had come to prime time TV.

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Orgasm vs. Intercourse

It just makes me laugh – how often tantra, or elements of tantra, show up in unexpected places. Marnia Robinson, of Psychology Today, shares about karezza, those blissed-out Bonobo monkeys, and the Church:

“Curious about why a pope condemned karezza, I recently waded through the late Archbishop Exner’s The Amplexus Reservatus (The Reserved Embrace). It traced some eye-opening Catholic doctrine about the purpose of marriage, much of which dates back to Church father Augustine of Hippo (b. 354 CE). He’s well known for his prayer, “Grant me chastity and continence…but not yet!”

Less well known is the fact that he (and his intellectual progeny) concluded that because sex is a consequence of the “animal” in man—and animals have no interest in using sex to foster love or unity—the proper use of sex in marriage is strictly for breeding. Whoa!

Actually, the infamous bonobo chimps, whose males sport supersize testicles, nevertheless engage in “rather casual and relaxed” sexual activity for social bonding, frequently without orgasm. And macaque male monkeys ejaculate in scarcely half of their copulations. That’s probably more than the Church fathers would have wanted to know, but the point is that primate sex often serves goals other than fertilization or orgasm. Why are we so single-minded?” (more)

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Erections – The Hard Facts

Here’s an eye-opening article by Dr. Oz regarding the organic causes of ED – Erections – The Hard Facts.

“A man’s penis is not only a measure of his manhood, it can also be a harbinger for hidden health problems. In 80% of cases, erectile dysfunction (ED), the inability to obtain and sustain an erection, can be traced back to an organic cause not related to sexual drive.” (more)

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Hot Sex Tip of the Day – Lovemaking Technique

Include some shallow thrusting in your lovemaking as it provides lots of mutual stimulation. The most sensitive nerve endings in the vagina are near the opening and 1-2 inches inside, which is also the snuggest part of the vagina with arousal. A penis that is aver­age or long may not adequately stimulate that area with only deep thrusting. Depending on the lovemaking position, shallow thrusting may also bring more stimulation to the g-spot.

For the male, shallow thrusting allows constant stimu­lation of the head of the penis, the coronal ridge and the frenulum, all very sensitive areas. Many lovers enjoy several shallow thrusts before each full thrust.

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