‘How can I persuade my partner to have anal sex?’

Q I really love my new partner. We get along great and sex is good, but anal sex is my favorite and I don’t know how to get her into it. How can I persuade her? Eddie from Colorado

A Whoa Eddie! I understand your dilemma, but first it is important to remember the No. 1 rule of sexual engagement: Never, ever try to persuade a sex partner to do something they are uncomfortable with.

However, there are a few ways in which you can make it a ‘comfortable possibility’ for her.

Anal sex and politics have something in common: Most folks are adamant about which camp they are in. Republican or Democrat — No Way! or Oh, yeah! (Ben, our Über Geek at SexCoaching.com, mentioned another obvious com­monality, which I won’t share here.) Butt with anal sex, sometimes there is an expedition… (more)

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Tantra Sensory Awakening Ritual

Crystal Dawn Morris, Tantra Coach, shares this Tantra Sensory Awakening Ritual with us. Personally, this is a favorite – a slow, sensual, intimate connection with your partner.

‘What makes Tantra unique from most spiritual practices is that Tantra embraces the senses as a path to the Divine. It sees the body as a temple for Consciousness to play and explore the material plane. Tantra uses the senses to expand awareness. One way this is done is through the Sensory Awakening Ritual. You and your partner explore the art of giving and receiving pleasure by activating the senses. There is something profound about surrendering totally and allowing all your senses to respond and be awakened. It is a sensuous process that can be light and playful or erotically charged. This ritual is a wonderful way to begin a romantic evening or weekend with your beloved. (more)

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The Penis and Tantra – what’s size got to do with it?

Here’s a sexy and playful article on one of our favorite subjects: the penis.

‘…Modern Love suggests that we hold these truths to be self evident, that all penises are created equal. Objectification of the body is COCKamamie (emphasis deliberate) and incompatible with sacred sexuality. It limits pleasure, joy and – since it bears repeating – your average 5.06-inch erect penis is superior to giving a woman a G-spot orgasm. Besides, who wants to make love like a porn star, if you can do it like Tantra gods and goddess’ instead?’

Tinamarie, Modern Love Examiner, includes this Bliss Advocates’s thoughts in her sensational article. Thanks Tinamarie – you rock! You will want to read the entire article – Smaller is better when it comes to G-spot orgasms

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Become a Better Lover – the Tantra Way

Crystal Dawn Morris, a featured expert on SexCoaching.com, shares with us her suggestions for becoming a better lover using tantric techniques.

Are you ready to be a shining star in a crowd of mediocre lovers? Do you want to be unforgettable? Master these 3 gifts and you will be able to surprise the Goddess/es in your life with these powerful skills.

Give Her Your Masculine Presence
Being clear and focused is one of the qualities of masculine energy. Presence is the ability to step out of men­tal chatter and be in the moment. When she feels your masculine presence she will want to open to you. Women like to feel special. When you focus your full attention on her, she will begin to feel like the Goddess that she is. (more)

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Your Brain on Sex

‘There is a physiological effect when you become sexually a­roused,’ says Sari Locker, Ph.D. sex educator. ‘Blood flows away from the brain and into the gen­itals.’ Great for your genitals, but what if you need to use your brain?

When you relax and fully sur­render to pleasure, you become immersed in all those warm and wonderful sensations cursing through your body.

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Are you a procrasturbator?

Procrasturbation – deciding to masturbate instead of doing any work. (Hmm…I think I need a break from work now.)

We’ve been having lots of laughs at Facebook.com/SexCoachingcom. Come join us!

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Sexual Savvy – When She Has It and He Doesn’t

“A REAL MAN is ready, willing and able to have sex anytime and anywhere.”
Clearly, his role includes being the Seducer, the Mind Reader, the Touch Maven, and the Giver of Multiple and Mind-Blowing Orgasms – all with infinite stamina – indisput­ably proving that he is the best lover his partner has ever had.

These MYTHS hold men to unrealistic standards and can have a negative impact on their sex-confidence. How does a man gain sexual experience without sexual experiences?

And what happens when his partner has more sexual savvy than he does? (more)

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Spicing Up Your Love Life

Judy Barton, Sex Coach, shares some tried and true options for adding spice –

Throw out the Viagra and let nature take its course. Add spice to your sex life and enhance your solo adventures, using natural, healthy formulas whose benefits have proven safe and effective over thousands of years.

Most people aren’t aware of Mother Nature’s great gifts or have little faith in their capabilities. (more)

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Sex and Aging

When ‘Sex and Aging’ is the topic, Otti Seiden should be mentioned. Otti is the author of ‘Sex in the Golden Years’ and 40 other publications. Otti is a retired MD, and a wise soul with a big heart – you can tell him I said so.

Check out www.boomerbookseries.com
Books By Othniel Seiden, MD and Jane Bilett, PhD – an amazing husband & wife team who have expertise in the health and psychological arenas. Entertaining, informative and amazingly timely, especially for …

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Terms of Endearment

It’s been on my mind again. There doesn’t seem to be a good term for ‘partners’ of a certain age – let’s say 40+. ‘Boyfriend’ and ‘girlfriend’ seem ridiculous to me. That was highschool stuff.

My daughter reports that ‘partner’ hints of gay and confuses people, and may also refer to business partners. ‘Life partner’ seems a little formal, and what if the ‘life’ part is undecided?

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