A Whoa Eddie! I understand your dilemma, but first it is important to remember the No. 1 rule of sexual engagement: Never, ever try to persuade a sex partner to do something they are uncomfortable with.

However, there are a few ways in which you can make it a ‘comfortable possibility’ for her.

Anal sex and politics have something in common: Most folks are adamant about which camp they are in. Republican or Democrat — No Way! or Oh, yeah! (Ben, our Über Geek at SexCoaching.com, mentioned another obvious com­monality, which I won’t share here.) Butt with anal sex, sometimes there is an expedition… (more)

Those multitudes of drooling men are proclaiming to their partners, and anyone within ear shot, their appreciation of Sarah Palin’s physical attributes. Yet many (most?) dislike her political views, her religious views, her human rights… So, in a man’s world, hot means attractive. Period. In a woman’s world ‘hot’ is not so simply defined (women ‘of a certain age’ that is).

Gender differences fascinate me. And sometimes they confuse me. This one amuses me:
Sarah Palin aside, have you noticed how often men share with their partners – ‘Wow! She’s hot.’ Or ‘She’s got great legs’? My point is: Men put it right out there – no holding back. (more)

‘What makes Tantra unique from most spiritual practices is that Tantra embraces the senses as a path to the Divine. It sees the body as a temple for Consciousness to play and explore the material plane. Tantra uses the senses to expand awareness. One way this is done is through the Sensory Awakening Ritual. You and your partner explore the art of giving and receiving pleasure by activating the senses. There is something profound about surrendering totally and allowing all your senses to respond and be awakened. It is a sensuous process that can be light and playful or erotically charged. This ritual is a wonderful way to begin a romantic evening or weekend with your beloved. (more)

‘…Modern Love suggests that we hold these truths to be self evident, that all penises are created equal. Objectification of the body is COCKamamie (emphasis deliberate) and incompatible with sacred sexuality. It limits pleasure, joy and – since it bears repeating – your average 5.06-inch erect penis is superior to giving a woman a G-spot orgasm. Besides, who wants to make love like a porn star, if you can do it like Tantra gods and goddess’ instead?’

Tinamarie, Modern Love Examiner, includes this Bliss Advocates’s thoughts in her sensational article. Thanks Tinamarie – you rock! You will want to read the entire article – Smaller is better when it comes to G-spot orgasms

Are you ready to be a shining star in a crowd of mediocre lovers? Do you want to be unforgettable? Master these 3 gifts and you will be able to surprise the Goddess/es in your life with these powerful skills.

Give Her Your Masculine Presence
Being clear and focused is one of the qualities of masculine energy. Presence is the ability to step out of men­tal chatter and be in the moment. When she feels your masculine presence she will want to open to you. Women like to feel special. When you focus your full attention on her, she will begin to feel like the Goddess that she is. (more)

When you relax and fully sur­render to pleasure, you become immersed in all those warm and wonderful sensations cursing through your body. And possi­bly, that’s all you are conscious of, or all you care about.

What if you need to make a ra­tional decision regarding your degree of sexual engagement, safe sex practice, or drug and alcohol usage?

When you strive to connect with your brain, you may find that it is full of fog. You’ve lost a bit of rationality, and this is definitely not the best time to make decisions regarding your health or safety.

Here are a few suggestions to ponder regarding self-care and safety when your brain is on sex:

● Be fully prepared for safe sex and walk your talk. It isn’t any­one’s responsibility to ‘carry the condoms’ – it’s everyone’s.

● Be cautious of engaging sexu­ally when there are several ‘unknowns’ – new place, new partner…

● With a new partner, discuss your degree of comfortable sex­ual engagement and boundaries before you become blissed out.

If there is resistance, notice the red flag waving at you. Play safe and have fun!

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These MYTHS hold men to unrealistic standards and can have a negative impact on their sex-confidence. How does a man gain sexual experience without sexual experiences?

And what happens when his partner has more sexual savvy than he does? (more)