Your Penis and You – Part I

Part I
The exercise below is a prelude – a fun prelude. Ok, so that phrase sounds remarkably like ‘foreplay’ – appropriate enough. I love to tease so my lips are sealed regarding the upcoming ‘main event.’ Keep your eyes peeled!

What kind of relationship do you have with your penis? Are you angry with it? Ashamed? Do you treat it tenderly and wash it lovingly? Or do you ignore it whenever possible?

What terms do you use for your penis? Is it a prick, tool, or dick? These terms are harsh and derisive and may not be compatible with the strong, healthy, pleasurable energy that you desire to manifest.

If you are like most men, you’ve examined your penis a million times, scrutinizing and criticizing its length and girth. Now try looking at it with new eyes, loving eyes, marveling at its magnificence, its function, its beauty. Notice the skin colors. Is it pink in some areas and darker in other areas? Do you see any spots or blue veins? What about your coronal ridge? Is it prominent or not? How about the color and texture of your foreskin? Is your penis nestled in a soft bed of hair? What color?

Now notice your scrotum. This marvelous heating/cooling system is evidenced by that uniquely textured skin which expands and contracts to maintain the perfect temperature for your sperm. Is one testicle larger than the other? (Left handed guys often have a larger right testicle.) Be a proud owner of that work of art and engineering miracle.

Name Your Penis
Don’t be in a rush – Your ‘right’ name will surface in its own time. As you consider the possibilities, be conscious of the power of words. Sparky or Pink Panther are preferable to Slug or Bozo. Some men prefer to use a name from their culture, or their animal totem, or spirit guide.

Or, it may come in your dreams. (I love puns – got some to share with us?)

Read Your Penis and You – Part II here.